I was young when I learned that if you combine working hard and cheating you often get something that actually pays off.
I sat at the piano when I was 8. The M*A*S*H song was the first real tune I played plunking out each note quite shocked that it actually sounded remotely like the theme song.
I haven’t stopped playing since. But my story doesn’t blossom into me learning to really play the piano and how I got to play a couple of gigs for Journey or for Springsteen when they came to town. I’m not a good piano player by any stretch.
I need that music in front of me. I taught myself the guitar chords symbols to play on the piano and know enough sight reading to plunk out the melody in the right hand. I cheat.
But I work hard at cheating so that most people can’t tell I’m staring at the guitar chord symbols as I accompany anyone who cares to sing. I even play in church on occasion in front of sometimes hundreds of people.
They don’t realize how much hard work this is for me and that I am in fact, cheating. But they seem to like it. That can’t be all bad.
In fact, it’s not bad at all, it’s OK – Happens all the time.
- Your boss or your colleague is sooooo good at coaching people. It comes so naturally to them. You on the other hand, sit at your desk and bang out “How to deal with conflict in the workplace…” like 4 times a week on Google looking for a darn answer. You find it. You print it off. You sweat it. It works. Tis’ that combo of hard work and cheating payin’ off.
- Your buddy’s closing deals like Vin Diesel in the movie Boiler Room and yet he looks like he just rolled out of bed most of the time. You listen over the wall and start stealing his lines left and right with what he’s saying to customers. You try em’. You memorize em’. You steal em’ for a week and soon you start landing deals. Tis’ that combo of hard work and cheating paying off.
- The team needs an answer. It’s brainstorming time. Have to find a way to drive some more sales. You are clueless, tired and it’s been a long week. You trip over a book that fell off some table you walked by, pick it up, pour over it and find the answer. You go to meeting. You share the idea. You don’t (gulp) share that you accidentally found the answer in a book you tripped over. Tis’ that combo of hard work and cheating paying off.
Here’s the deal. Hard work mixed with cheating has its place. Sometimes it’s for a specific need at a specific time. Sometimes like my piano playing, it’s forever.
When it comes easy to you it comes easy to you. When it doesn’t, that combination of hard work and bit of cheatin’ can get you some darn good results and no worries, nobody needs to know.
And for those of you aghast that I could condone cheating well, let’s just call it like it should be called in this case – stealing shamelessly.
Gotta run, have to “practice” some Billy Joel.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.