Posts Tagged ‘self development’
I Hate You Ann Peterson
I Hate You Ann Peterson
I don’t really. Just in a few trying moments now and then.
Anyway I wonder if what she said works elsewhere in life or at work.
Ann said something 5 minutes into our first running session that really hit me.
“It’s not how far you run, its how much time you run”.
Really? Since when? It’s all about distance when I was running back in the day (way way back in the day). It was all about running 1 or 2 or 3 miles every time and if time got involved it was “can I run those 2 miles faster?”
But I did what we as a big group of us were told. We had all joined the “Couch to 5K” running club a couple of weeks back. Ann is the leader, the one with the whistle and the stopwatch. And in that first session we ran for a few minutes each time, walked for 3 minutes, ran for 3 minutes. Rinse and repeat. Increase the time running each week she said. Hard. Brutal. But I like it the concept. Makes sense.
Let the time you run each week grow, not necessarily caring about the overall distance.
While I can’t say I’ve enjoyed the running these last 2 weeks (I still cursed Ann out last night in fact while running in Stoll Park a thousand miles away on business here in KC) The stopwatch can’t be right—these time intervals are the longest ever! But I really like the premise of focusing on time.
- Maybe I don’t need to get through my whole to-do list today but rather spend one hour solely focused on that to-do list every day.
- Maybe I don’t need to read those two books by next Friday, but rather focus an hour a day every day on just reading. Period.
- Maybe if I am a sales rep, I don’t have to focus on making 45 calls out before lunch today but rather focus on 3 hours of just making calls as quickly and wonderfully as I can.
- Maybe it doesn’t matter what I do with the kids on Saturday but how long we just “do” something that matters.
- Maybe if I quit counting stuff (am I the only one who does that?) and focus on counting the time I spend doing stuff I should, maybe the results would better.
Let’s hope I’m right ( and I think I am) – I don’t need any more reasons to be taking it out on Ann.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
My Books For Dummies
A box of Online Marketing for Dummies book showed in my office today. Good little book. Going to hand them out to folks and some customers too.
But it got me thinking.
I really need the books for dummies you see below. (Something tells me I am not alone.)
Send me please!
Managing Email For Dummies: I’ve been in “email jail” more than Lindsey Lohan lately. (Email Jail is when you have wasted so much of your memory that you get locked up and can’t send messages). Aside from that being kind of Lindsey Lohan’s problem too, I just can’t delete my emails. What if I need them? And what’s wrong with 3,000 emails in my Inbox anyway?
How To Say “No” For Dummies: It is just hard to say “No” – “No” to people, an opportunity or a need. But if you say “Yes” to everything, nothing gets done well and it gets really customized and expensive and people are crazed putting out fires all day because not everything gets done well. A vicious cycle. But it’s hard to say “No” because people look at you funny and they don’t smile back.
How To NOT Multi-Task For Dummies: Of course we know the truth – True Multi tasking is a lie (and proven a lie by the way) as very, very, very few people can actually do it. But how do you stop trying? IM, the Twitter Feed, Email, a Conference Call, a bird flying by the window etc. Even in “flesh to flesh” meetings we all bring our gadgets and distract ourselves. We meet but never “meet”. I’m not the only one on a conference call who has ever said “Let me think about that” praying to all that is mighty that no one realizes I haven’t a clue what I was just asked about.
How To Go Green At Work For Dummies: Not sure about this where you work but where I am, I’m afraid to throw something away. There are blue buckets and green buckets and tall brown buckets and huge grey buckets with like, locks on em’ everywhere. There are buckets with holes, buckets with floppy tops and there are the unlabeled nondescript buckets just randomly lying askew in hallways staring at you, judging you as you walk by with nothing to give. For coffee, should you use paper “tree killing” cups? Or the styrofoam “landfill forever” cups? Or do you use your own cup and waste the water to clean it? It’s not easy being green, or is it?
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Numbers Matter
Numbers Matter
“You’ve been a customer for many years…”
“We have a lot of customers where you are….”
“We build a ton of websites for small businesses….”.
Shoot me now.
Numbers matter.
No specific numbers can sound like you are lazy. No specific numbers can sound like you are reading from a script. No specific numbers sounds like you don’t care. No specific numbers says you are probably making it up anyway.
Trust is low in the marketplace. No specific numbers makes it worse. Customers and prospects are yearning for numbers – real numbers, real proof that you are credible or that you do care.
If you know how long a customer has been with you in the number of years or months, share it. If you don’t know- find out and share it every time you contact them.
If you know exactly how many customers you have that are just like the prospect you are talking to (i.e. exactly how many in their town/city or exactly how many just like them (their line of business) are already customers)), then share it. If you don’t know- find out and share it every chance you can.
If you know how many websites or widgets or thingamajigs you have that people use or buy or love then share that. If you don’t know- find out and then spit it out.
Numbers are credible. Numbers are proof. Numbers get attention. Numbers earn you a first look or even a second look. Numbers get you sales.
Numbers Matter.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
If You Knew, You’d Act Differently
Let’s start this post with Jeopardy like feel except that the answer to the following 6 questions is the same:
What is, “You bet I would!”
- If you knew small business prospects are 3 times more likely to act when you give dollar discounts versus percentage (%) discounts, would you handle your offers or pitches differently?
- If you knew most small business prospects had already looked at your website before they called you inquiring about pricing, would you handle the call differently?
- If you knew most small business prospects initially dislike being interrupted over the phone by sales reps, would you handle your call opening differently?
- If you knew most small businesses think you are more credible if you give specific details (like “we are launching a 3 part welcome program to all new customers..”) vs. sharing a customer testimonial, then would you speak or market differently?
- If you knew that 3 out 4 small business prospects in Manufacturing, Construction and Healthcare have their interest piqued when you share information specific to their industry ( vs. say just 1 out of 4 Retail prospects care about information specific to their industry), would you plan your contacts, visits and marketing with these types of verticals differently?
- If you knew that most small businesses don’t yet realize social media is the new and most sacred “Word of Mouth”, would you talk about, advise, encourage and role model social media differently?
The above are true and just a smattering of real data about real small businesses I culled from the research done by firms like the Enterprise Council on Small Business (ECSB) and other reputable research orgs.
Now you know. Go forward differently.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
The DIFM Kid
The DIFM Kid
I gave up. January 1st was the day that I was done.
I gotta just focus on what I do well and maybe do that better.
Now I pay a 14 year old whiz kid (a friend of my son), to just do technology stuff for me now. “The DIFM Kid” (Do It For Me) is what I call him. (He is pictured here as rendered by my wife) I don’t pay him a lot. But the ROI is unbelievable.
Let him set up the Netflix on the Wii, let him set up my wife’s new Facebook Business Page, let him figure out how to connect the piano keyboard to the PC so we can record some of my son’s music. Let him figure out why the wifi sync doesn’t work or why we need two Routers now because of all the stuff using whatever it is they use.
I’m not stupid. Some people (and this is hilarious) think I might be a little on the “techie” side of the ledger. ( LOL- that’s called Acting man) but it is getting harder out there. I don’t have the time, but I have the need.
I just realized no matter how many manuals and instructions I read, or how many tutorials or videos I watch, I’m not going to get it. Or I am not going to get it done fast enough. Or sometimes I am going to make it even worse. And maybe I need to focus on what I do well already and quit wasting time on stuff I don’t.
And now word has spread about “The DIFM Kid” and me using him. Now everybody in the extended family is asking for him. He disappears on Sundays 3 towns over at brother in-law’s house to go set up a new TV or to fix a slow laptop or to connect a transmitter to an outside thermometer. There’s a darn waiting list for him and texts asking “When is “The DIFM Kid” gonna be around? “ Things are looking great for him.
There are a lot of us out there feeling that way, consumers and small businesses alike.
You don’t have to look that far to see that Do It For Me services are going to explode not just in my family but in the marketplace too. I see them every day grow stronger and stronger where I work. They’ve been around forever, but now the speed in which new becomes old, or good becomes just OK or keeping up becomes “What the hell just happened?” is accelerating at a pace where DIY ( Do It Yourself) might soon feel so yesterday.
That smacks of opportunity. Be ready- The next DIFM Kid could ( or maybe should) be you.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
What I Learned Acting In Star Trek
What I Learned Acting In Star Trek
This last weekend we again watched the recent J.J. Abrams Star Trek film from a couple years back. Awesome movie.
I thought back to when I was an actor in Star Trek from the original series. Working with the other actors on set was life changing for me.
But let’s talk about this latest movie version of the series for a minute. It is a look back to the beginning of Star Trek – a “prequel” view at how the original characters, (i.e. the likes of Shatner, Nimoy and Deforest Kelly) all started out; how they formed their relationships and beliefs. About why and how they go about “boldly going” so to speak.
It made me think about my original days involved in Star Trek and what influence it had and has on my life today. My experience acting in Star Trek was huge. Those days on the “Trek” set shaped some very important things about me and how I act today.
Maybe you could learn from it too.
Star Trek wasn’t much of a hit when it originally aired late in the 60’s, but in syndication all through the 1970’s, it rocked.
I have 3 brothers and we were all growing up in the 70’s.
William Shatner and his crew had nothing on us; truth was, we were Star Trek.
I was Capt James T. Kirk. My first officer Spock (played by my older, sci-fi book loving, overtly logical brother Kevin), was incessantly harangued by Dr. “Bones” McCoy played by Brother Paul. Paul and Kevin kind of had that relationship off set at times, so it was a good fit. My littlest brother James played the role that offers the focal lesson for today.
James always played (he had no choice) …… “The Guard ….Who Went Bad”
You gotta have a bad guy sometimes. It makes it more fun. It gives you a purpose. It gives you a “mission”; a mission to succeed, to win and sometimes, to save the world.
Baby brother James had a rough time of it when you think about it. He always started out as part of the “crew” (which he liked) but only for a while (which he didn’t). His role, being about 7 years old, was always to guard the ship and crew as he slowly moved from room to room. (One bedroom was the “Bridge”, the other was “SickBay” and the rest of the little house was whatever dangerous planet we beamed down to).
Suddenly James (aka “The Guard…Who Went Bad”) was forced to “snap” and turn on the crew, putting our mission at risk. Racing through the house we would chase James, tackle him, and even though we had only set our phasers to “stun”, we somehow always killed him – his body blown to bits all over the living room ( somehow that was better than the “disappearing thing” that happened with the phasers on TV.) Good Times.
Gotta have a bad guy sometimes. That sticks with me. I have to have a purpose occasionally, to defeat something. My guess is you might too.
Maybe you work hard everyday to beat down this Guard Gone Bad sketchy economy thing. Maybe you strategize, work weekends and nights to knock this thing out and grow the business despite what seems like an incredibly hard mission.
Maybe you work up a sweat by3 o’clock pounding out calls and working hard to have conversations with your customers because you are fighting this Guard Gone Bad enemy that is someone’s false perception that you “can’t” do something. Take that Guard Gone Bad; don’t tell me I can’t do something.
Maybe the Guard Gone Bad for you is the competition. You won’t let “these other guys” take your market share, take your sales or take your future away from you. Nope; skip the phaser, give me the photon torpedo.
Maybe the Guard Gone Bad for you is a demon you are battling inside yourself. And it would be so easy to give up and check into Sick Bay but ain’t no way that is going to happen.
So maybe ( no assuredly), there is something good to be said about finding a foil, about finding that enemy to defeat and about creating and/or finding that Guard Gone Bad.
Thanks to my cast mates in the original series produced in Norwood, MA in late 70’s and especially to James. Sorry you got killed so many times bro, but at least it wasn’t in vain.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Time Forward
Sales isn’t about moving the ball forward. Sales isn’t about getting to the next agreed upon step. Sales isn’t about pushing it through the pipeline.
That’s way too advanced.
Sales is about earning time forward.
Sales is about doing so well in the first 5 seconds that you earn 10 seconds more from the prospect or client. Sales is about doing so well in the those next 10 seconds that you get the big prize which is maybe 30 seconds more of that prospect or client’s attention.
And if you nail those 30 seconds really, really, really well you might just get the equivalent of what feels like a week’s worth of time in this rough and tumble world of Sales, and earn maybe 5 whole minutes more.
And then and only then, you may garner the right to purchase (yes, I do mean purchase) more of your prospect or client’s time.
You see, time is the most precious commodity there is today. Worth more than gold I’d say. And to earn this time at the beginning and to do so well that you get the chance to buy more of it later, that my friends, is what you ought to be obsessively focused on doing right now with all of your time.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Your Favorites & Mine
Your Favorites & Mine
Happy Friday and New Year,
Here’s a quick look back at 2011.
The votes are in (ok the views). Here are the top 5 (listed 1-5) most viewed blog posts at this site in 2011; presumably your favorites. Good taste I’d say and thank you for your readership. I’ve added 5 others I’d add as my favorites.
Look around a bit. What’s the worst that can happen? Steal something shamelessly and grow the business?
Top 5 Most Read Posts (2011)
You Had Me At Hello (and then, you just let me go)
The Most Powerful Phrase In Sales
My 25 Secrets Of Selling To Small Businesses
Help For Looooonnngg Sales Cycles
My 5 Favorite Posts of 2011 (aside from above!)
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Drug Reps Selling Differently
An article from yesterday’s Wall Street Journal very much worth the read.
Drug Reps Soften Their Sales Pitches
Interesting. A Softer sell. A different kind of sell.
And Sales are going up.
- Interesting to read what happens when a sales rep becomes a resource to the physician.
- Interesting to read what happens when a sales reps shifts focus on providing more help to the physician’s patients.
- Interesting to read what will happen when a sales rep becomes a real help to the physician allowing her to get more time to see patients.
It’s not a stretch to replace each word physician in the bullets above with Small Business Owner or Banker or Distributor etc. And to change each word patient to customer.
Nope, not a stretch at all.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Embrace First
Embrace First
The best business advice I ever got was about 10 years ago.
She hauled me off into a side room and said “At least embrace the culture first, even for just a few minutes, before you go ahead and change it”.
Seems timely these days.
A lot of us have new responsibilities. Some even have a new job. A whole bunch of us have new customers we are calling on. And even if you don’t have any of these, it’s a new year and most of us have something or someone we are charged up to go about and change.
But here’s what you gotta know.
You have to take those “few minutes” first to embrace, to learn, to build some trust, to analyze what levers you can really leverage. Those few minutes can be literally a few minutes, but more likely it’s longer than that. It can be an hour, three days, a week, two weeks or even a couple of months. And that’s the problem some times; – we have so little patience once we’ve decided that change is needed.
But remember that that culture or department or team or customer you are trying to go change already exists. It’s a real thing. It’s not like you are starting from nothing. It likely has some people, processes or strategies that do work or are wicked smart or have already brought the effort forward from someplace that was much worse.
Ignoring that is stupid. It’s not about going slow. It’s about going smart.
So take the “few minutes” to embrace it, them or the group. Get close. Listen. Don’t’ talk. Take a few steps to the right or left and embrace again. Get close. Listen. Don’t talk. Rinse and Repeat.
And when you think those “few minutes” are up and you’ve listened enough, force yourself to add a few more.
Change is big and change is good but change works far better when you start with an embrace.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark









