The DIFM Kid
The DIFM Kid
I gave up. January 1st was the day that I was done.
I gotta just focus on what I do well and maybe do that better.
Now I pay a 14 year old whiz kid (a friend of my son), to just do technology stuff for me now. “The DIFM Kid” (Do It For Me) is what I call him. (He is pictured here as rendered by my wife) I don’t pay him a lot. But the ROI is unbelievable.
Let him set up the Netflix on the Wii, let him set up my wife’s new Facebook Business Page, let him figure out how to connect the piano keyboard to the PC so we can record some of my son’s music. Let him figure out why the wifi sync doesn’t work or why we need two Routers now because of all the stuff using whatever it is they use.
I’m not stupid. Some people (and this is hilarious) think I might be a little on the “techie” side of the ledger. ( LOL- that’s called Acting man) but it is getting harder out there. I don’t have the time, but I have the need.
I just realized no matter how many manuals and instructions I read, or how many tutorials or videos I watch, I’m not going to get it. Or I am not going to get it done fast enough. Or sometimes I am going to make it even worse. And maybe I need to focus on what I do well already and quit wasting time on stuff I don’t.
And now word has spread about “The DIFM Kid” and me using him. Now everybody in the extended family is asking for him. He disappears on Sundays 3 towns over at brother in-law’s house to go set up a new TV or to fix a slow laptop or to connect a transmitter to an outside thermometer. There’s a darn waiting list for him and texts asking “When is “The DIFM Kid” gonna be around? “ Things are looking great for him.
There are a lot of us out there feeling that way, consumers and small businesses alike.
You don’t have to look that far to see that Do It For Me services are going to explode not just in my family but in the marketplace too. I see them every day grow stronger and stronger where I work. They’ve been around forever, but now the speed in which new becomes old, or good becomes just OK or keeping up becomes “What the hell just happened?” is accelerating at a pace where DIY ( Do It Yourself) might soon feel so yesterday.
That smacks of opportunity. Be ready- The next DIFM Kid could ( or maybe should) be you.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Time Forward
Sales isn’t about moving the ball forward. Sales isn’t about getting to the next agreed upon step. Sales isn’t about pushing it through the pipeline.
That’s way too advanced.
Sales is about earning time forward.
Sales is about doing so well in the first 5 seconds that you earn 10 seconds more from the prospect or client. Sales is about doing so well in the those next 10 seconds that you get the big prize which is maybe 30 seconds more of that prospect or client’s attention.
And if you nail those 30 seconds really, really, really well you might just get the equivalent of what feels like a week’s worth of time in this rough and tumble world of Sales, and earn maybe 5 whole minutes more.
And then and only then, you may garner the right to purchase (yes, I do mean purchase) more of your prospect or client’s time.
You see, time is the most precious commodity there is today. Worth more than gold I’d say. And to earn this time at the beginning and to do so well that you get the chance to buy more of it later, that my friends, is what you ought to be obsessively focused on doing right now with all of your time.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Your Favorites & Mine
Your Favorites & Mine
Happy Friday and New Year,
Here’s a quick look back at 2011.
The votes are in (ok the views). Here are the top 5 (listed 1-5) most viewed blog posts at this site in 2011; presumably your favorites. Good taste I’d say and thank you for your readership. I’ve added 5 others I’d add as my favorites.
Look around a bit. What’s the worst that can happen? Steal something shamelessly and grow the business?
Top 5 Most Read Posts (2011)
You Had Me At Hello (and then, you just let me go)
The Most Powerful Phrase In Sales
My 25 Secrets Of Selling To Small Businesses
Help For Looooonnngg Sales Cycles
My 5 Favorite Posts of 2011 (aside from above!)
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
Drug Reps Selling Differently
An article from yesterday’s Wall Street Journal very much worth the read.
Drug Reps Soften Their Sales Pitches
Interesting. A Softer sell. A different kind of sell.
And Sales are going up.
- Interesting to read what happens when a sales rep becomes a resource to the physician.
- Interesting to read what happens when a sales reps shifts focus on providing more help to the physician’s patients.
- Interesting to read what will happen when a sales rep becomes a real help to the physician allowing her to get more time to see patients.
It’s not a stretch to replace each word physician in the bullets above with Small Business Owner or Banker or Distributor etc. And to change each word patient to customer.
Nope, not a stretch at all.
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
3 Little Words That Will Rock Your World
It’s not “I love you” cuz’ I don’t. Not really.
But no worries ( and sorry if I just rocked your world
), those aren’t the 3 little word types I’m talking about anyway.
Actually, I’ve got 3 sets of 3 little words that are a heck of a lot better than what we usually say.
These words are perfect for pros in Sales, Marketing, Training, Leadership or just plain ol’ Life in general and should be used all day long.
So good are these 3 little words that they will Rock Your World. They will do better than that and make Glorious your entire 2012 if you chose to use them liberally.
So the question is, do you want to improve your performance, have people really love you more, crush quota or get promoted this year?
Oh Hell Yes! (Um…These are any of the 3 little words I am talking about- but I like them).
Here they are. Print these and tape this across you’re the face of your smartphone- that way I know you won’t forget them.
- “What I Can”: Oh to have a dollar for every traditional phrase I hear of “there is no way” or “I can’t” or “It is not possible to hit that date” and I’d be super rich. “What I can” followed by the word “do” or “say” or “give” is so much better. Simple psychology here- focus on the positives or what is within the realm of possibility. The opposite i.e. “can’t” is an automatic tension raiser. Use “what I can” this in sales, coaching and collaboration and people, no matter what you do, will see you as someone who always says “yes!”
- “What We Believe”: This is especially for you sales and marketing types. Usually we blather on about “What we have” in the realm of the products or services, or options and promotions etc. Instead of starting your sales and marketing conversations with “What we have are ____ and ____…” replace it with “What we believe is small businesses should take advantage of______ “or some phrase like that that espouses intelligence. Customers/ Prospects know your darn products (heck they went online before they called you!). What they want is advice and counsel. They want a company or a person that has an opinion, a belief. It’s less risky that way. They want to hear what you believe. Do this and you will make more sales.
- “What Most People”: Throw away everything else – these are the most powerful words in sales,marketing and training. There is comfort (especially in a sketchy economy) in what other “like” people or businesses do. Just lead with these 3 words! You don’t need to explain it, tee it up or cringe before you say it. “What most people buy is the _____”. Or “What most people say is within 120 days they see great results”. You get it. But no one really says it often enough. People and businesses (especially some say, small businesses) wont’ move till they know it works and most others are doing or using it. Say it 50 times a day or more and you win!
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark
7 Bold Predictions For 2012
7 Bold Predictions For 2012
I’ve done these before.
And by the way, that’s “Mr. Markstrodamus” to you.
Talkology Will Rule. IPhone 4s’ Siri, Dragon Dictation and the like continue to grow in influence. It’s a mere matter of time. Holding a phone to your ear was a pain in the tuckus so Bluetooth came along, nested in our ears and gave you your arm back. Why deal with the sprain and pain of typing then? Wireless microphones we will all soon wear as we enter orders, write reviews and even update systems like salesforce.com
QR codes will explode for businesses large and small. Don’t get what these are yet? They allow you and your customers to spend more time with a product. Be the first to have a ritual develop using the QR codes with your brand, your stuff, your resume’, heck even your T-shirt. Enough with the “What is this QR code again?” stuff. Learn it – and execute on it ahead of everyone else. Someone else agrees with me on this one see here.
“Attraction” Will Be The Marketing Buzzword. It’s not about getting “attention” or calls to “action” anymore. It’s about building a product, a following, coveted knowledge or even a legend about what you do or can do. You will aspire to have buyers search and yearn for you so much you need to beat them off with a stick. Look for sales training, marketing campaigns and web content to rally around the best way to answer the customer pleas of “Tell me more!” instead of the other way around.
Video Selling Will Actually Happen. Never did really take off eh? But it’s getting easier everyday and frankly too much is lost for seller and prospect alike without visual cues. Get out your Skype or Face Time Makeup (I can assure you that’s a product coming) and either iron that shirt or cover it with a sweater cuz’ now its going to matter.
“You Are For Hire” Booms: Oh, you’ll keep your day job but frankly social networking isn’t working fast enough for many businesses. You’ll be contacted based on your “Kloutish” or Tweet Grader scores, or number of Facebook fans et all, then signed up and rewarded in $$ for influencing your friends even though you aren’t part of any affiliate program. It’s like Mary Kay and Lia Sophia cept you do it online and without a blog. Trust is low. But Trust is necessary for buyers to buy and now Trust will be worth cash to you. ( And you will take it because you will believe!)
Simple Makes A Comeback. Oh sure we all think we are simple to buy from or deal with; except that we aren’t. We know that we as a species have outgrown our ability to remember and execute well upon what we learn as what we are learning is so vast. We know we have to bring simple back. The single greatest killer of sales is not the status quo ( are you kidding me in this economy people and businesses want to stay put?????) rather, it is complexity. Confusion and complexity is like hitting the emergency brake on sales. Look for “It’s as easy as 1- 2 -3″ to come roaring back.
2.5 = 3.5, XLVI, 2, 18 & 8: Charlie Sheen rejoins 2 & 1/2 men ( as the show is plain terrible now- and really, who likes Alan playing the bad sleazy guy anyway!) -They’ll say it was all a dream. Also, The Patriots win Superbowl XLVI in February, The Bruins repeat, The Celtics get banner #18 and Red Sox crush Theo’s Cubs in World Series to get their 8th trophy. How do you like dem’ apples?
That’s what I see, and you?
Till next time,
Grow The Business.
Mark









